Reasons why you should not have sex before marriage.
If you date and don’t have sex, you can forget about that relationship when you get hurt and stop dating, but if you have sex with those you date and then break up, the nature of sexual involvement creates strong and unpleasant memories for your whole life. U will be badly hurt emotionally bcos sexual intercourse was involved. Every relationship you break up where you had intimate relationship is like a mini-divorce. The psychological difficulties of these mini-divorces does damage to your character. Later, when you get married and go to bed with your beloved spouse, these unpleasant memories will accompany you and most times some of these ladies regret and wonder why they gave away their body and virginity so cheap before marriage.
Virginity is a precious and priceless gift treasured by every lady that knows its worth. Its a treasure created specially by God to be given to your life time partner in marriage, the most important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Virginity is the most precious thing you have to keep and keep to the rightful owner ( your spouse). Its not something you should give away away just like that. Once you lose it, nothing in the world can bring it back. Don’t loose something so precious in a thoughtless way. There is always this blessing in marriages that the lady waited till marriage before loosing her virginity to the spouse. Breaking a girl’s virginity is taking an oath/blood covenant between the 2 partners indicating they should stick together forever. God is not foolish to say sex should be for only married couples. He knows y he did it that way and he created us to follow dat plan, in which failure to do so is abnormal use and there is severe consequences which many don’t realize too early until leta in life.
True love waits. If the boy or girl truly loves you, they will want the best for you. Sex will never be the priority of the relationship. They will not want you to suffer psychological difficulties of premarital sex. They will want to experience love with you only in the very best place of all – the love nest of marriage.